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Holly
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"Sometimes being a Mother is hard, and it hurts."
Female
39 years old
Modesto
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CA
United States - 95356
Last Login:
May 04 2007
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About me:
I loved you enough to bug you about where you were going, with whom and what time you would get home.
I loved you enough to insist you buy things with your own money, which we could afford, and you couldn't.
I loved you enough to be silent and let you discover your friend was a creep.
I loved you enough to stand over you for two hours while you cleaned your bedroom, a job that would have taken me 15 minutes.
I loved you enough to let you see anger, disappointment, disgust, and tears in my eyes.
I loved you enough to feel the pain of an unexcused tardy
I loved you enough not to make excuses for your lack of respect or your bad manners.
I loved you enough to admit that I was wrong and ask for your forgiveness.
I loved you enough to ignore "what every other mother" did or said.
I loved you enough to let you stumble, fall, hurt, and fail.
I loved you enough to let you assume the responsibility for your own actions, at 6, 10, or 14.
I loved you enough to figure you would make bad choices, but forgave you for it...after discovering I was right.
I loved you enough to shove you off my lap, let go of your hand, be mute to your pleas and insensitive to your demands...so that you had to stand alone.
I loved you enough to accept you for what you are, and not what I wanted you to be.
But most of all, I loved you enough to say no when you hated me for it. That was the hardest part of all.
Hi everybody, I am a wife and a mother of four boys. I've have been a follower of Christ for a little over a year now, and am so happy with the changes that are taking place in my life. My boys are 16, 14, 4, and 3. Toddlers and teenagers- Oh My! I am a Loan Officer in Modesto, and help people leverage the equity in there homes and purchase homes. I went to school in Wasilla, AK and have been here in California for 17 years. Total Sunshine State Girl now, there's no going back. I love to go out on our boat wakeboarding with my family and friends. I love camping, reading, and shopping! I hope the site grows! We will do our best here in California and Alaska to spread the word.
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Tell me a secret of living, dear Mother,
a new one I've never been told--
some hint about life to remember you by
that will stay with me when I've grown old.
"An overlooked secret of humans, my child,
is that each is a seed that will flower,
and that each has a future of limitless joy,
whatever the pains of the hour.
"And I tell you that no love has ever been lost
nor is anything out of place--
that your work is to strive, to give and to know
in this journey through time and space.
"Your grandmother told me the same when she died
and I willingly pass it along.
May your living go deeper than what you can see
and your heart hear the Infinite Song."
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Cowboy
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12-06-2006 1:24:56
Hullo there!!
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Kyndall;
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11-17-2006 6:09:04
im pretty good. thanks. i like to have fun. the little kid gang on my street always makes me forget about a lot of things and get away from all the teenage drama. its funn im glad i have them.
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Kyndall;
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11-16-2006 8:02:18
hey how are you?
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gabbo18
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11-12-2006 8:32:25
so ur from alaska, eh?
how's the weather? :P
i'll be getting snow soon...
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*~Sassy~*
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11-10-2006 1:43:35
You are an amazing woman....love you babe!
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Azmodi
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11-06-2006 4:56:38
Cali Girl eh?
Wow, four Boys!!!! Sainthood awaits. Welcome to Flapdaddy and thanks for the invite.
Well, I reside in Florida but, my heart resides in a much cooler climate. I am sure I was born to shovel snow.
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FlapDoggy
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11-06-2006 11:44:44
Thats some funny stuff. Ive always been a big chuck fan. Its one of the reason I got my blackbelt a few years ago.
BTW Love the Portishead song. Great stuff
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Keyth
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11-06-2006 12:02:13
Just for you.. 
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*~Sassy~*
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10-30-2006 8:07:45
Call your girl...sometime...crazy hot mama!
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